Tag: say yes

This is 40.

I actually don’t care that it’s 40. It could be 372 and the only thing I’d care about was the fact that I was catching up to Methuselah as the oldest person EVER, if we’re pretending that story is exactly accurate.

My birthday was this past weekend. I’ve always been super nerdy about knowing who I share a birthday with for some reason. Probably in case we ever ran into each other on March 18th and wanted to have celebratory beers. Seems logical to me. This year, I looked again to see if there was anyone super exciting to add to my bday bud list and actually realized these folks have some great reminders for me.

Lady Gaga: “Don’t you ever let a soul in the world tell you that you can’t be exactly who you are.” And “You have to be unique, and different, and shine in your own way.”

Queen Latifah: “You almost have to step outside yourself and look at you as if you were someone else you really care about and really want to protect. Would you let someone take advantage of that person? Would you let someone use that person you really care about? Or would you speak up for them? If it was someone else you care about, you’d say something. I know you would.” (from her book Put on Your Crown.)

Grover Cleveland: “A cause worth fighting for is worth fighting for to the end.” and his supposed last words of “I have tried so hard to do the right.” (Not gonna lie. I don’t even think about Grover Cleveland and Googled the crap out of this one, but the guy had some quotes that really hit home!)

Kat Cole: I’ll wait right now while you do your research on who she is and then follow her on Twitter. While you’re doing that, I’m going to try to decide which of her ONE MILLION awesome quotes I want to leave you with.

These are two of my favorites: “Focus on things that are small enough to change, but big enough to matter” and “Have empathy, gratitude and respect for every position in the company”. There’s one more quote that has been stuck in my head almost every day since I listened to her speak for the second time at the 2017 SHRM Conference, but it’s actually a quote from her mom: “Don’t forget where you came from, but don’t you dare let it solely define you.”

Here’s to 40 and here’s to being 100% authentic to myself, not giving up the fight for what’s right for myself and those around me and continuing to learn more and move forward every single day.

What I Learned from the Super Bowl 52 Halftime Show: Part 1

Hold on. This isn’t about the quality of Justin Timberlake’s dance moves during the snippet of “SexyBack” (yeah!) or how the show would have been SO much better with an N*SYNC reunion. Give me a couple of paragraphs worth of time to explain this.

One night, in a bout of typical insomnia, I noticed one of the local Minnesota news stations asking for people to sign up to work during the Super Bowl Halftime Show since it was hosted in Minneapolis. Because it was 3am and I was lacking sleep, I signed up. I assumed there would be 6,000,727 other people that did the same.

Two days later, I got an email congratulating me for being selected as a Field Team Member for the Halftime Show. I had no idea what that meant or what I’d be doing, but OKAY LET’S DO THIS. That was in early December.

We had our orientation in mid-January at a church that was being used as a hub for a lot of training, located right in the middle of the chaos that was being built up in downtown Minneapolis during that time. Roads were closed. It was cold. Parking garages were taken over by weird equipment. There were gigantic tents built in empty parking lots. I was whiny and told my wife, who I was leaving at home with our three year old and two week old, that if orientation was dumb, I wasn’t going to do it.

This is what it looked like while we waited. It’s pretty top secret:

After about 400 people checked in to this optional orientation, we started by watching the Lady Gaga Super Bowl Halftime show. It’s worth sharing.

Then we’re introduced to a guy named Cap Spence. Bookmark this link to read about him sometime. I wish everyone could work for a Cap Spence at some point in their life. He has stories and, man, does he have stories.

For 1.5 hours, Cap made sure we were clear about our expectations in being a Field Team Member. We would be putting together the stage for the halftime show. AWESOME. We would not be watching any football of any kind during the Super Bowl, nor would we be standing around watching a Justin Timberlake concert. We especially would not be playing “grab ass” with JT. Cap’s words, not mine.

I wanted to live tweet the whole thing. I decided it’d probably be a bad idea to do that once Cap told us all we “need to quit nursing at the digital nipple” and be completely present in rehearsals. Made sense to me.

What did I learn from the Staging Supervisor for the past 17 Super Bowl Halftime shows?

I learned I had to trust that he knew what he was doing. There were 21 carts full of stage parts that were going to need to be put together in less than six minutes and he was going to show 500 volunteers with zero experience how to do it with six rehearsals. Completely out of my control.

I needed to only focus on my job for those six rehearsals and trust that everyone else was doing the same thing. It worked for Lady Gaga in 2017, for Katy Perry and Left Shark in 2015 and for Prince and his amazing stage in 2007. Somehow, it’ll just work.

On the train ride home, I unequivocally knew it was going to be awesome.

Photo by me.