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#SHRM17 Another Jam-Packed HR Day

Since we’re all about authenticity here, I’m gonna let you know I didn’t make it to the 7am session. My co-worker picked me up a box of Fruit Loops because she is a caring individual and I had a bottle of Coke I’d picked up Sunday morning, so the Breakfast of Champions was all I needed. Fair warning before you start reading – the things I heard on this day go much further beyond anything I could possibly explain via blogging or writing or probably even talking. It was a lot in a really, really, really great way.


Patrick Lencioni was the keynote speaker for the day and I was naive enough to know nothing about him. Turns out he’s pretty friggin’ amazing and kinda knows what he’s talking about. I had The Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable on my Goodreads list after hearing a peer talk about it during a leadership forum, but hadn’t familiarized myself much more with Patrick. Big mistake that has sense been rectified! I need more knowledge from his guy and plan to gain all I can in the very near future. Here were my quick takeaways from his talk focused on How to Identify and Attract Ideal Team Players:

  • The ideal team player/co-worker/employee needs to be humble, hungry and smart. Two out of three ain’t bad isn’t exactly accurate on this one, Meat Loaf. Two out of three is also 66.7%, which is only about a solid D, according to my College Algebra teacher back in the day. We have to do better and really hone in on these three things if we’re looking for greatness.
    • Being humble doesn’t mean you need to lack confidence in what you do or what you can bring to the table. It just means you’re thinking less about yourself and that’s something we can all probably work on. The person that doesn’t have humility might be great in meetings and doing all the presenting, but deep down it’s still all about them. When the rest of the team starts to realize that, there’s bound to be a breakdown of trust.
    • You need the hunger to be there. If someone lacks the other two things we’re looking for, they’re going to bulldoze everything – their team, their leader, and anything else that gets in their way. You can see the hunger in someone by the way they always want to do more and their strong work ethic. It’s inherently who they are and is also the hardest to teach later in life. Without the hunger, you’re going to have someone that’s really great with people and truly cares about the people around them, but they’re never going to take things very far and have a hard time with that pesky commitment thing.
    • And they gotta be smart. It’s not the letters behind their name, how many books they read or how many conferences they go to all the time, even though those things are also very valuable. The smarts we want/need is more common sense with people they’re around and understanding how people might response to things. If they’re too smart for their own good and aren’t humble or hungry, they’re going to have that knack of being very good with people, but can also be arrogant and lazy meaning there’s nobody that’s really going to enjoy being around them.
  • You can work on developing your current team members, whether they’re your employees or your peers. As part of a HR department, you’re a leader of humans within your organization by default, so you’re going to need to get used to that. Go first. Be vulnerable with this. See yourself as too arrogant or just maybe pretending to be confident? (That latter is always me since we’re going first on this one…) Acknowledge that in front of your team and start the conversation that way. You’ve opened the door for the conversation and now each individual can work to identify the area where they need to improve. Once everyone’s nailed that down and the team has taken time to share it, hold each other accountable and give permission for everyone to call each other out on them. The first few times will be rough, just like any other awkward conversation, but that’s how we all grow. As a leader, it’s your job to go to someone time and time again if you don’t see a change happening because it’s important. You can’t half-ass invest in someone and expect greatness. Employees need to know where they have room to improve so they know how. It’s our job as a leader to have the courage to help them stay in their position and stay successful.


Ditch the Performance Evaluation Tool? Let’s Talk Leading Instead of Managing with Lepora Menefee.  

This is the thing now, right? I feel like I’m constantly reading something about this type of thing. I’m trying to write an annual review right now and I hate it. I don’t hate wanting to tell my employee how they’re doing – I think that’s vital. I hate having to go through an Outlook folder full of saved emails to figure out how the year was. It doesn’t seem sincere or at all intentional to me and I’m not even the one receiving the feedback. I’m always curious to learn more about why this is a great idea or a really terrible idea. And let me tell you, it tends to be one way or the other.

For me, I don’t think this particular session was what I’d planned on it being. It was much more of a session guarded towards showing leaders how to make those performance evaluations less of a chore and more of an interactive and engaging experience for the employee and the leader. There were a few ideas I still want to noodle for a while because I think they pose some great jumping off points if an organization is looking to revamp the review process, but I didn’t have any takeaways from here that I was itching to come home and implement RIGHT THIS VERY SECOND.

Brand Name HR: Giving Your Function Life and Purpose with Steve Browne

Truth: I’d really been waiting for this session as soon as I started stalking the SHRM17 schedule. I’m in HR because I want to make sure people can be their best selves at work. I’ve followed Steve on Twitter for what seems like forever and am pretty regularly inspired by his approach and intention towards Human Resources. If you were there and saw someone nodding their head up and down pretty much the entire time Steve was talking, that was me. And even though he made us all stand up and yell “I love HR!” before he got started, I totally wanted to do it about four dozen times while listening to him talk. I walked away with so much to take away from Steve, including his book HR on Purpose: Developing Deliberate People Passion These are only just a few:

  • How do you view and describe HR? How do others within your organization view and describe HR? I really, really doubt the answers to those two questions are going to even be remotely close to the same. They probably won’t ever match up word to word and, in my opinion, I think that’s probably okay. It’s our jobs as HR folks to at least get those answers running parallel to one another instead of at opposite ends of the earth. I’m looking at this as an opportunity to improve how I explain what my HR department is like, whether it’s to a New Employee Orientation class or to different student groups we have touring our offices from time to time.
  • Come to Me versus Intentional Approach. If employees are the ones coming to the HR department for things, we’re not doing our jobs right. We’re reacting based on each question. Yes, it could be the same question 15 times in a row from 15 different employees, but that doesn’t matter. Each person is going to need a different response because not every single person is the same, but more importantly, we should have been out there with those employees making sure things were clear from the get go. HR shouldn’t be a department that handles transactions. We shouldn’t answer a quick question about the effective date of someone’s benefits and then be done with it. We should have either been partnering with them well before that question even came up or we should stick with them until the very end to make sure they’re feeling confident about their benefits. It’s the difference between an order taker and a business partner.
  • People are emotional and we should treat them as such. Conversations, whether they’re really, really exciting ones or absolutely terrible ones, will easily hinge on emotion. Put yourself in the shoes of someone that’s meeting with their manager and/or HR. They’re probably nervous, anxious, unsure of what’s going to happen in that conversation. (This could be projecting, because before I got into HR, I was called into HR’s office with my manager and promptly fired for being terrible at selling educational software.) If tears happen to start flowing, let the tears flow. Sure, have some tissues nearby, but don’t try to placate someone by telling them “it’s going to be okay”, because you aren’t them and you don’t really know if it will be okay. Give them time to feel whatever it is they’re feeling because it’s valid. Whatever it is. It’s valid.
  • If people aren’t your foundational block, don’t be in HR. Steve could have dropped the mic and walked out right there. I think for the majority of the people in that room, that simple statement was probably a given. I don’t think it is for everyone. To me, it’s the same thing as if you don’t like math, don’t be a math teacher or if you don’t like driving, probably don’t drive an 18 wheeler your whole life. I know it’s not always easy to do what you love, but it’s not going to be a walk in the park for you or anyone else around you if you wind up doing something you hate. People have always been my foundational block and, because of that, it’s sometimes hard for me to understand the why behind people in HR that don’t feel that same way. Doesn’t mean it’s wrong I can’t figure it out. I can’t figure out Calculus, but I’m sure there’s some really great things about it, you know?


Getting the C-Suite’s Attention: Seven Strategies for Transforming from HR Leader to Business Leader with Jennifer McClure

If there was a conference where I could just sit and pick Jennifer’s brain for eight hours at a time, I would. And totally not in a creepy way, I PROMISE. I’m fortunate enough to work in an organization where it’s not a far stretch to already have the C-suite’s attention. That transformation from an HR Leader to a Business Leader is a shift I know I need (and want!) to begin to make. I’ve recently noticed that I’m lacking when it comes to strategy. While it was hard to admit that to my boss, I feel like actually saying it out loud was a good thing. I’m aware of this area I need to grow and I think by making my direct leader aware that I know that about myself just gives us a chance to gear our conversations more towards that. Point here: definitely a session I’d been looking forward to, not only because of the topic but because the speaker is someone whose beliefs I can get behind about 99.9% of the time. These are brief points, but if I didn’t make them that way, I’d go on and on more than I already am.

  • Strategy 1: Workforce Planning. I’m a recruiter by nature, but in my roles, I’ve never been the one to plan out what our workforce might look like to a larger scale. It makes sense it should involve an HR partner, because it involves that whole people thing that we happen to do. “The right people in the right place at the right time” is something we’ve heard/read 1 million times, but it’s the truth. It’s just how we get there that’s a potential bump in the road. We have to identify the people that fall into those critical roles – the hard to hire, hard to retain roles. Where does the redundancy in those roles lie? Nowhere? We’re in trouble. We either build that redundancy internally with those that are able to learn, we hire the folks that already have those skills that are high in demand and that price tag (and value) that would come along with that or we make a jump into the gig economy that’s starting to really grow out there.
  • Strategy 2: Attract and Recruit. OH, HEY, THAT. Our organization has only recently noticed we need to be more proactive in our recruiting efforts. Thinking like a job seeker instead is something I’d imagine most recruiting-type folks don’t think about and, yet, it’s the easiest damn thing in the world to do.
  • Strategy 3: Retain Key Employees. Everybody’s open to talking about changing jobs and don’t fool yourself into thinking otherwise. I was at my current job for just shy of three years when I got a call from a tech company that I’d applied to literally years ago for a Project Manager position when I’d never even managed much more than a Taco Bell in my life. And I’d casually hinted to the CEO via social media that I’d be more than happy to come do anything HR-related for her. Then I found my current job in 2013 and L-O-V-E it. Got a call to interview for a Director level position at this damn tech company. I had many conversations with that company, even accepted a job offer before I had a conversation with my boss as to why I was accepting it. I ended up staying where I’m at now and haven’t regretted it. Point is – your high performers, your low performers, your solid rocks that have been in place for 20 years? Don’t be so sure they’re going to slam the door in every prospective employer’s face. You gotta figure out what’s going to make them stay and it’s not always making it rain with dollar bills on Fridays. (Is that even still a thing kids talk about nowadays?)
  • Strategy 4: Develop Future Leaders. First off, remember not everyone wants to be a leader and not everyone who thinks they want to be a leader will really like it when they get there, because there’s no way to clearly paint a picture of what day-to-day things leaders do. But, as a leader, I’d sure love a set day-t0-day sometimes, man. Not all your “high potential” employees want to be leaders either. And since most organizations don’t have any type of formal process in place to figure out who those future leaders might be, it’s time to figure out how yours can get going on that. Mine doesn’t and we know that, so this one’s a big “more to come…” for me.
  • Strategy 5: Improve Engagement. I f’ing love employee engagement. I want everyone to be 100% engaged 100% of the time and I totally know that’s not ever accurate. But if it did happen, I think I’d be bored. The first thing that has to happen is to make sure your employees know you actually give a damn in who they are humans. You don’t have to go hug them, chest bump when you see them in Home Depot on Saturdays or talk about periods for them to see you’re truly engaged in who they are. You have to be genuinely interested. If you can’t find a way to do that, I might consider really evaluating whether or not leadership is for you.
  • Strategy 6: Create a Great Place to Work. I f’ing love this more than employee engagement. One thing that thrills me about where I work is how closely we each personally value our core values. I’m not naive enough to think 100% of the people feel the same way, but I actually know from a recent employee engagement survey we conducted in February that it’s pretty darn close. The reason we’ve all been able to get on the Core Value Train is because it truly comes from the top down. It’s communication, but it’s transparent and genuine communication. If your senior team isn’t open to this, well… good luck because you’ve got some work to do to convince them otherwise.
  • Strategy 7: Communicate Like an Executive. Like a BOSS is what I think this should actually say, because I’m hilarious. What I’ve learned in reporting up directly to a Senior VP is that bringing a whole list of questions is absolutely fine for some kind of fact-finding mission, but when it comes time for a final decision or a recommendation on something, just give it to ’em with confidence. Understand the “why” behind what you’re trying to solve for and make sure you can justify how your solution answers that question. Have the answers to the questions that they’re going to ask ready to go. Know you shit. Really know it. And if it winds up being a terrible action/decision, keep owning it at that point, too, and just learn from it. Learn from it and come back with another action. That’s how you get better.
  • Strategy 8: Sequester yourself away with Jennifer McClure for hours and pick everything you can out of her brain. But not in a creepy way. 

Shit. That was a day.

That night, we grabbed dinner, saw Harry Connick Jr. for about 20 hot minutes and then called it a night. We still had to pack and get ready to check out of the hotel the next day. Right about this time was when Tropical Storm Cindy started rolling into town and sleeping through that much rain was fantastic.

#SHRM17 A Full Day

And I mean a full day. For the record, I made it to the 7am session.

My focus for the conference was definitely learning as much as I could about transitioning my HR department and my own role into more of a proactive business partner instead of a reactive department that tends to operate a lot off requests or issues or problems, so this is what my day looked like in a nutshell:

From Vision to Transformation: Leading Through Change

The first session was a pretty big letdown. It wound up ending at 7:45am and it seemed like the speaker never even got past the surface of change. There were some pretty standard concepts that the speaker touched on: Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, a clip of a Lakers’ game that included a bunch of players pushing each other, and a brief rundown of what the different parts of the brain are called. The biggest takeaway was something that I think a lot of us might struggle with, especially when we want to keep people engaged or show our appreciation in either a tangible way or in some type of power trip for some reason. I think it’s something we understand and I think it’s valuable to reflect on things that we already know:

  • Incentive and threat rarely work in the long run. It’s easy to think both sides of that might help, but neither one really foster a feeling of trust or appreciation and that’s what a long term commitment is really about, whether it’s in the professional world or your personal life. In Human Resources, we focus on humans and that means we need to focus on them in their entirety. If you threaten or bribe your significant other or child to mow the lawn all the time, does it work forevermore? Sure doesn’t. Employees are people exactly like you, your leaders and your HR department. It’s important to remember that.

The ‘HOW’ of Spreading the ‘WHY’: Effectively Spreading Vision Throughout Your Organization with Randy Anderson 

I’ve been reading A LOT lately on how it’s important to explain the why to people. It’s easier for people to want to get on board when they know WHY they’re doing something and not just HOW to check things off a list. Makes sense, right? And as a person, it’s my own curiosity of WHY the heck are we doing this that gives me that extra push to knock things off checklist. If you think about it compared to the session right before this, it builds off of the stop threatening employees and stop trying to pay them off to get shit done. Just help them understand WHY they’re doing it. That’s not a lot to ask. My 2 year old asks WHY a million times a day. It’s annoying, but he sure does think it’s the greatest thing ever when I actually answer them. Win-win for both of us. Two key takeaways for me from this session:

  • If you asked your employees why the change, any change, was happening, what would they tell you? They’re likely the ones that will be answering questions from your external customers, their friends and family, or even new employees coming on board. If they don’t know the answer, this is how you know you’ve got some work to do.
  • Make the vision and goals of the organization a regular part of the conversation. I had a true sense of pride when Randy said this, because I feel like it is a regular part of the conversation where I work. It’s not one of those forced habits where your managers make you recite them every single day and chastise you because you don’t know them. For us, it’s because our employees feel like they exemplify our core values in what they do, at work and at home. I’m not completely naive in thinking 100% of our employees feel that way. I bet you could ask any one of our 540+ employees to name our core values and they could. As we go through big changes, it’s a good reminder to make sure those changes we’re making are also inline with our core values. And WHY they’re in line with our core values. It’s making sure they’re reminded of our values and why we do what we do on a regular basis.

Disrupt HR! Approaching HR, Talent Acquisition (and Your Career) in a Whole New Way with Jennifer McClure

I can’t even begin to do this talk justice. I’ve followed Jennifer on Twitter forever and, awesomely enough, actually met her in person right outside of my last session. Twitter is magic and I don’t really feel like that’s a stretch of the imagination.

I try really hard to take notes during these sessions because it makes better sense to me in the end when I start reflecting on what I heard. Didn’t happen during this session. At all. The word disrupt gets thrown around a lot right now and it doesn’t always make sense to do that in some aspects. It does in HR. At least for me. It also matches up to everything I’ve had in my head ever since moving from an agency recruiter role into an actual HR department a little over four years ago. I loved every single second. It just MADE SENSE and there’s also more for me to put together if I can get it all out of my head.

Equipping New Managers for Success: Tools for Creating High Performance Work Environments with Alan Fine

I think it’s a challenge with any company when it comes to making sure new managers are set up for success. Whether we hire people that have that management experience in the outside world on their resumes or we promote someone up through the ranks because they’ve been strong performers, we aren’t putting either of those people in good place without giving them the tools and knowledge they need before they get too deep in the weeds of everything else that goes along with a leadership role.

  • SPORTS ANALOGY. I don’t know how many times there are sports references in HR conferences for some reason. It’s certainly not due to the high level of males in the field – maybe it’s to attract them to our luxurious lives in HR? The actual point was something that really jumped out at me. In any team sport, the coach is the one that gets fired if the team is performing poorly, even if it’s just one person on the team that’s tanking it. In business, the player (or the employee for those of you that are already lost on this sports analogy) gets fired due to their performance/poor results. Why is it different? Professional athletes have gigantic 8-figure salaries with multi-year contracts, so is a coach really all that important when that’s the case? I think it tells me that in the business world, we think employees are easier to replace than managers. That’s probably true in a lot of cases. It doesn’t make it right.
  • SayDoCo. I love this and it’s easy. Say what you’ll do. Communicate when you can’t. Do what you say. Add them all up and it’s pure, unadulterated accountability, my friends. When we’re accountable to our teams and to ourselves, we create that feeling of trust that leaders need early on. Now we’re advancing in those five levels of leadership, am I right, John Maxwell?
  • Fire, Focus and Faith. We can give leaders (and employee, too, really) all of the knowledge in the world and provide them with all of the actual training in the world, but without these three components, there’s going to be a struggle. All three of those things enhance someone’s knowledge. If someone lacks faith or belief, it leads to insecurity. If they like the fire or the energy, it’s looked at as indifference. If there’s a lack of focus or attention, inconsistency is going to be right there.


And then there was an evening of hanging out with HR people for like six hours and it was phenomenal. I’m the type of person that will find a way to get out of professional networking any way I can, but this wasn’t professional networking and I think that’s what made it less uncomfortable for me. It was just people hanging out with people and that’s a concept I haven’t really run into in my minimal attempt at professional networking. It gave me a fresh mind on how network doesn’t HAVE to be and I’m so grateful for that.


#SHRM17 The Conferencing Commences

I sat my alarm for 7am even though the conference didn’t technically start until 12:30. What kind of savage would I be if I didn’t take advantage of our hotel’s free breakfast? It didn’t disappoint. They had Fruit Loops. Totally worth getting up that early. I knew I had a couple hours to burn before I had to be anywhere, so I took two hours to myself to walk aimlessly through the French Quarter.  Those two hours led to a whole bunch of sunshine in my face and being able to really soak in the absolute beauty in the streets of New Orleans. I also got hustled by a guy named David who tried to polish my canvas shoes with something that looked like lotion. It’s all good – he gave me some beads and I gave him a handshake. 

I headed back to the hotel to change, pack up the backpack and head to the Ernest N. Morial Convention Center for the first session of the day. There were shuttles that were scheduled to pick everyone up from their hotels for the duration of our conference, but I don’t think they were quite ready to roll on Sunday morning. We were lined up at our designated bus stop by 11:30 in order to get there in time for the 12:30pm session, but after waiting 45 minutes and having two buses drive by that were already full, we realized that wasn’t going to happen. We buddied up with some other couple that was waiting inline and dropped a cool $11.50 for a ride instead. We still didn’t make it in time, but we were able to grab lunch before the opening general session. 

My co-worker asked her phone what restaurants were nearby and we wound up at Cochon Butcher. I’m telling you right now if you’re ever in New Orleans and don’t visit there, I am silently judging you. Best Cubano ever plus Coke in a glass bottle. And only a quick walk from the convention center. Hell of a beer menu, too, but it was only noon. C’mon, you animals.

We got back in time early enough to get a pretty good seat to hear Kat Cole deliver the opening session. I. Love. Kat. Cole. It’s a business-boss-lady, awesome-human-being crush and I’m not even ashamed to admit it. When SHRM announced she’d be a keynote speaker, I was stoked. She spoke last year at the 2016 SHRM Talent Management Conference and I was blown away. She could have delivered the exact same talk and I wouldn’t have even cared. She didn’t. Instead, she delivered a story of how she failed in her own leadership, how she worked through it and how she regained the trust that was lost because of that. That story has stuck in my head and in my heart ever since I heard her talk about it. There’s so much more to dive into with Kat’s story and what she brings to a group of HR professionals. It’ll be a revisit sometime because I owe it to myself to really process some of those things I took away. 

After Kat, the Exhibition Hall opened up, which meant over 15,000 people were about to go get their free swag on and I was right there with them. Let me be completely honest with you for a second. I hate vendor stuff like this. My hate slowly disappeared when the first booth we stopped out was pouring a red solo cup of Zima if you gave them your business card. Totally worth the price of a couple of sales calls, if you ask me. They also included a Jolly Rancher. Hello, junior year of high school. It’s been a while.

I’d never been to a room that large filled with that many vendors, all there to talk about HR stuff. It was insane. There was typical swag: pens, tote bags, chip clips, magnets, the other things you pick up and then accidentally forget in your hotel room. And there were rubber ducks and fidget spinners (way to be relevant!) and t-shirts all over the place. It was enormous. Here’s an idea of some of the other swag vendors were handing out:

If you pour the drinks, people will come. I think anyone there was very comfortable with the fact that those free cocktails were going to wind up with some sales people calling us in the next couple of weeks. 

We went through a few areas of the rest of the exhibition hall, but knew we wouldn’t conquer the whole thing because we had dinner plans with some other HR folks that also happened to work in the credit union industry. It was a small group, only seven of us, but World of Beer was the perfect place for us to drink, eat and chat about credit union life on the HR side of things. 

(Side note: If you would have asked me 10 years ago if I’d be totally geeked about sitting at a table sipping blueberry wheat beer from a local brewery, followed by some amazing cider shipped over from Sweden, while talking about talent management, policies and procedures and HRIS systems with other adults, I would have punched you in the face because I was probably drunk on Bud Light, eating a Nacho Bell Grande and about four months away from getting fired from a software sales position.)

We paid our tabs and next thing you know, someone from our group had an Uber sitting in front of the restaurant waiting to take us to Frenchmen Street. Um, okay! We caught a bit of music at the Spotted Cat and then crossed the street to Snug Harbor when the band at the first place took a break. Because we’re mature credit union professionals, we weren’t out too late and all took a group jaunt back to our respective hotels. After all, we had a 7am session the next day and we had bets on who would actually show up in time for them all. Good news is most of us did.